Divorced fathers and dating
I think that his being divorced and a dad are red herrings. I wouldn't be able to date someone who didn't do that.
It sucks to be in the position of feeling like you have to "nag" someone to do the bare minimum.
If you're single and dating, once you hit your mid-30s you start to notice more and more divorced dads on Tinder, Ok Cupid, and IRL.
He was divorced about two years ago, his son is about five, and his relationship with his ex is still pretty antagonistic. When we met, his divorce had been final for about 3 years and he had joint custody of three children, the youngest of whom was 9. You have a good thing when you're in contact but there isn't a big need on his side to make that contact happen. Someone who wants to be in contact regularly, get to know you better, have you in his life. Don't waste time on trying to parse out his feelings. He's not calling or texting or trying to set up dates. He's telling you clearly what his feelings about you are.
Welcome to our reviews of the Divorced Fathers and Their Children (also known as gay meeting).